Creating with ECCO and A New Bridge-House is Born

If you are interested in walking in an Evolutionary Path — meaning a Path with no final destination, but an infinite array of different Non-Linear steps, climbs, descents, holes or walls — then you might be interested in Creating.

Asking yourself certain Quest-ions such as “what does is take to have a global culture that can regenerate the ecosystems?”, or “how do I find what is my mission on Earth and fulfil it?”, or" “how do I keep invoking each person’s Being and Potential into life?” with honesty and determination will take you on a Path, where who you are right now has the potential to change into a person who can Create what you really want.

Creating is the experience that you can have when something that has not existed before suddenly exists. It happens by holding two opposing forces inside of your Being: an accurate assessment of current What Is, and a clear vision and commitment to what you want to exist. When you hold these two Forces in your Being, a creative tension arises in your Being that if you put into action, forms that Path.

If you hold those two forces in your mind, then you think your mind can solve the tension. Your mind is too slow, too stuck, too predictable, too crystalized in habitual thinking patterns and strategies to Create a brand new path. What you create instead are iterations of things you know or imitations of what others or yourself have done before. That’s pretty boring, because it lacks the aliveness of the present moment, it lacks being at the edge of something fresh and new. But it also lacks collaborations with multiple Archetypal Domains and Resources that are far bigger than you, and have far more energy and clarity. Holding What Is and What You Want in your mind is like trying to illuminate a football stadium with a portable handheld crank-operated flashlight, when you could be jacking-in to 1,000,000 Watts.

That’s part of the Path I have been walking in the last 5 weeks.

Over a month ago I was sitting in Patricio’s couch in New York after a week of facing into the reality that all my plans had changed overnight. I was no longer going to stay at the Magic Cow Bridge-House for a few weeks with my friends. I was no longer going to spend the end of the year in Mexico or Brazil with my partner. I was no longer in a romantic partnership. All the back-of-my-mind plans and fantasies about relating and collaborating were crashing.

The shattering of fantasies is a devastating business. It is devastating because fantasy-worlds are very effective survival strategies, that work by their highly seductive content where everything is apparently perfect and all your wishes come true. The crashing of a fantasy-world needs to be as devastating as the fantasy is seductive, so that it is completely effective in dissolving any minuscule footing of the fantasy. After the fantasy is completely burned to the ground and the only thing you have is ashes, then something else can be possible, if you build new inner structure in reality.

So after 8 days in the devastation ashes of my fantasies I was sitting on a couch in New York creating an online group of women to empower me getting clarity about the workings of my Underworld, and reporting in it. After a while I respond in another group of women taking a stand for discovering Archan ways of Relating with their partners. Then I write in another women’s group where the women are going through research about taking ownership of their unconscious use of sexual energy. Then in another woman’s group about her Dignity. It dawns on me that I am in about 6 different groups where women are actively committed to each other’s empowerment in different research areas, and in most of the groups are made up of practically the same women.

I could have let my mind go into the logic of it: since we are all working together, let’s continue to work together while living in the same place, for example, in a Bridge-House. I would then be creating a logical result. But that is not what happened. These women were already working together for a while. And I was committed to another Bridge-House project called Radical Freedom Bridge-House, which was planned to start in February 2024, and had had a few people already lined up for it, although not that many.

One major thing that changed was that I got clear about what I wanted my own research to be about: it was about getting to the bottom of this Underworld creation and to practice consciously creating something completely different. As soon as I created my own personal empowerment woman’s group my research became clear, and it became evident to me that I could no longer hold space for the Radical Freedom Bridge-House, because this Path was to be walked with other women.

On the outside it might have not looked different that a logical decision. But internally, everything had changed energetically. The Bridge-House that I would hold space for was the Women Of Earth Bridge-House. This was so clear in me that it was as if I had not made the decision, but that things just were so, and I was a complete YES to it. When this non-decision-decision was made, a huge rush of energy started to flow through me. It was like I suddenly became plugged into an electrical socket and I was lit up. Immediately I started calling women. It had not occurred to me to question this move, even though I had not done it before. I invited women who were close by, and women who were 18 hours difference in timezone. And woman after woman returned the invitation with a “YES”. Even Sónia, then in Bali, who was confirmed to travel to New Zealand for another Bridge-House the following weeks told me how the day before (earlier in the day for me) she came to the clarity that she was not moving to the Bridge-House in New Zealand anymore.

What had been happening was that a series of circumstances were occurring in each woman that had said ‘yes’ to my invitation, where they were in a liquid state, where something in them or around them was breaking, something was shattering, or something was ending. These circumstances were creating enough of a Liquid State that they could be open enough to such a radical proposal: wherever you are, come to Brazil, bring your breaking, your shattering, your liquid state, and your research. Come as soon as you can.

This is E.C.C.O. (Earth Coincidence Control Office) at work, midwifing the circumstances so that the women get the message that a completely different possibility is waiting for them.

There was an additional element of the invitation that would be considered unreasonable to most people: the Bridge-House would start as soon as two women would meet. “Next week, or after the training. Yes, it starts in two weeks, as soon as I met one of you.” was what I answered. Who could reasonably pick up and leave their lives and move to Brazil with two weeks in advance? The mind, the certainties, the logic and the fantasies cannot hold this kind of un-reasonability. These women could do it because they were liquid enough and free enough from their mind to be able to listen to something else inside of them.

Right now you could be going liquid enough to hear something else. Something far bigger than your identity, or your personality. or your personal preferences. This can feel like a calling, something like an internal switch that lights up, or a gravitational pull, or a great necessity. It takes time, practice, and multiple Initiatory Processes to be able to distinguish between a pull from emotional baggage, from something already known (and dead), and from Archetypal Resources. You can train to experientially distinguish these different pulls in Radical Responsibility-Centered Authentic Adulthood Trainings.

These women have been doing consistent work in and out of trainings and several different decentralised groups of study and practice. In less than 48h, 7 women were a confirmed yes and 3 had already booked their flights. I created a messaging group for us. Again the energy was zapping through my bodies and I immediately started writing the Codex for the Gameworld AND finished it that same evening. In all of the Gameworlds that I had been a part of its origin, this had not happened before.

Fast-forward to the present, the end of the second week of the Women Of Earth Bridge-House. We are waking up and creating a 24h practice and reporting back. We are leaving the places we live in more alive and cared for than when we arrived. Experimenting with different cultural traditions such as exposing our Underworld purpose of being in the Bridge-House, asking for what you really want, or whenever one of us has a jubilant celebration to share she shares it, and then starts a 1-song celebration group dance where we move our physical bodies and allow the joy to be uncontained. Inventing what needs to be invented for each other to go through to transform, and grow, and unfold.

My mind could not have imagined that 7 women would immediately say yes when I invited them, nevermind booking their flights in less than 48h. And by the way these are not financially wealthy women by modern culture standards. These are not usual women: they are wealthy in Clarity, Empowerment and Commitment. They are (and becoming even more) wealthy in having an accurate assessment of what is, and wealthy in the clarity about what they want to create, that’s how they can move like this. And most of all, they are liquid and groundless enough so that they can listen to Archetypal Forces speaking to them and through them. They are able to listen to something bigger than their minds, their reactivity, their addictions, or their habitual psycho-emotional behaviours.

When they can do this, they are able to Consciously Create, because they can plug themselves into those Archetypal Resources like their Bright Principles; their Archetypal Lineage; their Archetypal Anger, Fear, Sadness, and Joy, and ECCO.

This possibility is available for you too.